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Physical abuse guide

Find support after physical harm, threats, or control.

This guide is for people looking for resources after physical abuse connected to a workplace, care setting, facility, family situation, relationship, housing arrangement, authority figure, or person who controlled safety, services, money, records, or access.

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Physical abuse resource guide

What counts

Physical abuse can include force, injury, threats, restraint, or intimidation.

Physical abuse is not limited to visible injuries. It can include conduct that makes a person unsafe, traps them, controls movement, threatens harm, or uses a position of power to make reporting feel dangerous.

Direct physical harm

Hitting, slapping, pushing, kicking, choking, grabbing, restraining, throwing objects, blocking exits, forced confinement, or threats with a weapon.

Abuse tied to power

Harm by someone who controls job duties, care, housing, transportation, placement, medical access, money, family contact, benefits, records, or daily safety.

Retaliation and intimidation

Threats after disclosure, pressure to stay silent, forced apologies, punishment, isolation, surveillance, reputation attacks, or threats against children, work, housing, or immigration status.

Settings

The right support path depends on where the harm happened.

At work

Supervisor, coworker, client, or customer

Workplace physical abuse may also involve harassment, retaliation, unsafe assignments, job threats, or pressure from someone with authority.

Workplace guide
In care

Facility, foster, residential, medical, or therapy setting

Abuse in care can involve records, staff roles, supervision failures, safety complaints, and systems that may feel hard to navigate alone.

In care guide
At home

Family, relationship, or housing safety

Physical abuse at home may require safety planning, confidential contact, shelter resources, counseling, and careful timing before taking action.

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Not sure

Multiple issues or unclear category

If the setting overlaps with harassment, assault, abuse, retaliation, or authority, use the private intake flow to narrow resources.

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Checklist

What to document if it is safe.

Only save records if doing so will not put you at greater risk. If someone monitors your phone, email, browser, or documents, use a safer device or trusted contact when possible.

Incident details

  • Date, time, location, and what happened
  • Names, titles, relationships, and roles
  • Photos of injuries or damaged property
  • Medical visits, diagnoses, or discharge papers
  • Witness names or people told afterward

Pattern details

  • Threats, messages, calls, emails, or voicemails
  • Changes after you reported, resisted, or tried to leave
  • Access to weapons, keys, money, documents, or transportation
  • Work, care, housing, custody, or facility records
  • Prior reports, complaints, or police calls

Safety details

  • Safe ways and times to be contacted
  • Trusted people who know what is happening
  • Places you can go in an emergency
  • Devices or accounts that may be monitored
  • Emergency contacts, medicines, IDs, and important documents

Next steps

Start with safety, then choose the resource path.

Immediate danger

If you may be harmed right now

Call 911 if you are in immediate danger. If calling is unsafe, move toward a public place or trusted person if possible.

Call 911
Confidential help

If you need to talk privately

Hotlines can help with safety planning, options, and emotional support before you decide whether to make a formal report.

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Resource matching

If you need help sorting it out

Answer a few private questions and our team can help point you toward resources relevant to your situation.

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Legal information

If work, care, facility, or authority issues matter

Some physical abuse cases also involve institutional responsibility, retaliation, employment, custody, or civil rights questions.

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FAQ

Common physical abuse questions

Do I need visible injuries to ask for help?

No. Physical abuse can include threats, restraint, intimidation, choking, blocking exits, forced confinement, or attempts to control your movement or safety, even when injuries are not visible.

What if the abuse overlaps with sexual harassment or assault?

That is common. Use the intake flow or call us so the support path can consider both physical safety and harassment, assault, abuse, retaliation, or authority issues.

Should I confront the person who hurt me?

If safety is uncertain, avoid confronting the person alone. Consider speaking with a hotline, trusted person, advocate, or emergency service first.